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Once again, Chuck Renslow, President of IML (and self-proclaimed world representation of all leatherman) is trying to force the leather community to do as he commands, as you can see in the note below from IML's home office:

Dear Vendors:

On behalf of International Mr. Leather, Inc., I would like to thank you for your past support and in particular for your participation as a vendor in our annual Leather Market. We are writing you today to inform you of a policy change affecting next year (2010) and all future markets.

Though we are now three decades into the HIV/AIDS epidemic, no cure has been found. The CDC and local health officials inform us that new infections are on the rise. And, while we have had some success developing medications that might make infection more manageable, that accomplishment comes at a price. Not having experienced the deaths - the loss of loved ones -- which preceded these medications, we have an entire generation who may not fully appreciate or comprehend the severity of the situation.

Too many in our community believe HIV/AIDS is curable or manageable. Too few understand that HIV/AIDS infections dominate life. We believe that it is our duty to inform and educate. Several years ago when “Meth” was the scourge of our community, IML drew a line in the sand and raised awareness and used all our influence to try and stop this addictive madness. As is the case with HIV/AIDS, we believe it is our further obligation to do everything in our power to prevent future infections.

To that end, after considerable discussion, the Executive Committee of International Mr. Leather has decided that it will no longer allow participation in the IML Leather Market by any entity which promotes barebacking or distributes/sells any merchandise tending to promote or advocate barebacking. This restriction will also apply to distribution of gifts, post cards or any other information via our facilities.

This policy takes effect immediately.

Sincerely,
Chuck Renslow, President
International Mr. Leather


Although I don't personally agree with barebacking/barebackers, outlawing the sale of bareback media at IML is unconscionable. He's not going to stop nor prevent barebacking, just as he didn't stop the use/sale of methamphetamines in the leather community three years ago with his little speech about the evils of them. He's only going to push the barebacking community deeper underground.

It's virtually the same as when Rudy Giulian closed all the bath-houses in NYC when the AIDS epidemic started. It didn't stop sex from happening -- it just pushed it underground. When something is underground and hidden from view, there's no way to easily educate men who are partaking in such events...

Barebacking videos, photos and stories provide a safe alternative to the real thing. Any adult (and only adults are allowed into the marketplace) knows the risks of barebacking. Censoring barebacking media from IML is NOT the answer!!

If Chuck succeeds in getting his way, what's next? No fisting or watersports? No bondage or S&M? This is a slippery slope, Chuck. Who are you to dictate to the leather community what they can buy, watch or do behind closed doors?

Furthermore, consider that IML (in general) has been losing touch with it's roots, as can be seen in what Vern Stewart wrote: "For many hardcore leather men attending IML 30, thoughts and questions ranged from; is this a costume party? to, what has cartoon characters and spider man dress ups have in common with leather? The curious came in droves and departed with their mouths hanging open. Hardcore leather men, spent most of the weekend shaking their head and ‘ trying to remember if ever in their life had they ever dressed like who they were looking at. Leather has taken on a completely new look with the youth of today. Our future leather leaders will have their work cut out for them in attempting to bridge the gap from yesteryear to the future."

Spiderman costumes? What's next? Wonder Woman?

For the past ten years, the IML beauty pageant (contest) has been a joke. Most people going to IML don't bother going to the contest portion of the event -- they go to the leather market, local bars and private parties in the host hotel... Over the same weekend is the Chicago Bear Weekend. At least they're more masculine than someone in a Spiderman outfit!

You'll find me at Bear Weekend instead in 2010!



Comments

gearjock
Jul. 17th, 2009 09:30 pm (UTC)
All interesting questions to be sure.

Where DOES personal responsibility come in?

I can't buy into the "slippery slope" argument of BDSM equipment, fisting etc.

I mean, if one person in hurt in a careless BDSM accident, do they go out and infect 10 more and that 10 100 more and that 100 a thousand more?

Barebacking is a unique situation, safe sex is a personal responsibilty to be sure, but it is also a community responsibility.

Fort Troff was selling a lube that had ingredients that were deemed to be unsafe and someone called them on it.

Vendors will make money, community be damned. I don't suppose at one level I can blame them for pursuing easy money.

That doesn't mean I have to quietly stand by on the sidelines and say "oh, what a shame".

It doesn't mean Chuck does either.

We have a right wing conservative who give money to those who fight against our rights selling whips in our community to make money.

He has the right to make a buck right? But he does it at the price of the happiness of my friends.

These vendors can make any kind of porn they like, they choose barebacking, in part it's at the price of peoples lives.

It was their decision to bareback, but trust me they had help.
bigfootcub
Jul. 18th, 2009 04:57 am (UTC)
i first want to say that i respect your opinion and enjoy this debate....the best thing about awareness is debate, so thank you!!


you stated:
I mean, if one person in hurt in a careless BDSM accident, do they go out and infect 10 more and that 10 100 more and that 100 a thousand more?

actually the potential is there, actually it does not take one to "infect others" its peoples own perception of what BDSM is knowing what is real and what is fantasy. We both know that being tied up 24/7 is not a real reality, but a mear fantasy. Anatomy showes us that the muscles can atrophy and blood clots can be created if we are not carefull. Also if some one is emotionally and psychologically abused, but is not aware of it.....they would pass that on to others, only because that is what they know is reality is. i have personal experiance in that.

you also stated that

Barebacking is a unique situation, safe sex is a personal responsibilty to be sure, but it is also a community responsibility

i disagree that barebacking is a unique situation. if we follow the "monkey see, monkey do" philosophy then we also have to look at alcholhl consumption. Last time i checked, alochoholism is a disease, and is far more addicting then barebacking. when young leatherfolk see that most leatherfolk drink alcholohl and some to over excess, they think that would be normal (again if we follow the MSMD philosophy) Since it is addicting, one can add that it can lead to other addicting behaviors like meth, oxycodone, vicadine, heroine, etc.

as for the Fort Trough case, i agree with you 100%.

are you also aware that mainstream porn performs sometimes cut the condoms so that they can bareback but appear they are being safe? The company is not aware of it, but the performers do, so should we ban all porn then?

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